We all know with pregnancy comes unsolicited advice, and awkward questions from everyone. Now, I do not mind either. At all. Please, tell me things I may not know. I want to know everything! And I love being pregnant and any chance someone asks me to talk about it, I will. I thought I'd share what I have been hearing the most of lately in case you too, are wondering.
Are you going to breastfeed?
Yes, yes, yes. I am going to. I catch my self saying "I'm going to try!", but I don't like the sound of it. I will breastfeed. I will. I am terrified of not having milk. That is my one fear. I am ready to endure the pain, and the hard work that is breastfeeding. I am ready for all that...but I fear nothing will come in. I pray everything will go smoothly in that department.
Are you having him at the hospital?
Yes. Home births have no appeal to me.
Are you going to get drugs?
Yes. Natural birth has no appeal to me.
My other biggest fear is having to have surgery. I really want to be able to have a vaginal
birth. I am although having him in a hospital, because I understand things happen and he
may need to arrive via c-section. I am preparing my mind for that.
Does he have a name?
#1 question always. No, he is not named. We are throwing Sawyer around, but it is not set.
My husband fell in love with the name Theodore and has not given up hope for it. I hate that name. We kinda stopped talking about names a few weeks ago. It just goes nowhere. I do not feel like I need to see him to name him, but that may just be what happens.
Are you going to cloth diaper?
Not that I know of. I have some diapers already and I figure people will give me more, so I plan on using those. I haven't done much research on it, but if I did do it, it'd probably be just when we are at home.
Are you going back to work?
As of now, yes. I plan on working about 2o hours a week once he is a couple months old. I hate answering this question because I feel judged. I wish I could stay home, but this was not a planned pregnancy and had it been a year down the road I probably could stay home. We just moved into this home and my income is still needed. I do love my job and it is very flexible and I am so grateful for that. We are trying to work out the budget, downsize somethings and cut out others so my income is not such a big stress.
Will you be pumping?
Yes. I plan on pumping at work. My dear friend lent me her Medela In Style pump (yes I got new equipment for it). I want to avoid formula at all cost. Part of that is because I believe breast is best, but the MAIN reason is because breastmilk is free. I am all about free.
any more questions? ask away! and give me any tips you may have!